"A holiday’s booked for the summer which is exciting.”Loving mum Tiffany recalls how she had to try to explain to her three-year-old daughter Maisie that she was going to die.Tiffany said: “I said to her ‘you know mummy hasn’t been well? she enjoyed boating and rowing but left as she grew up to advance social skills in life and in general. "Well, mummy’s all better now. I felt really, really guilty. England and Leicester scrum-half Ben Youngs withdraws from the Lions tour to New Zealand as his sister-in-law has terminal cancer. "They take it so well as best they can as they understand.“Daddy’s going to look after you and grandmas and grandpas.Tiffany said she knew Maisie realised what was happening when she heard what she said to a friend.Tiffany said: “Maisie said to her friend ‘do you know what? The wife of England rugby player Tom Youngs has told how her 'terminal' cancer miraculously disappeared after she started alternative treatment - including controversial cannabis oil. Tom was distraught.”Tiffany said she had a feeling that the news about the scan, 100 days after she had undergone a stem cell transplant, was not going to be good.She said: “I was nervous sitting in the waiting room. Unfortunately, mummy has to go to heaven.“She was like ‘oh’ - so black and white. So don't worry. That’s what children are like though. Put me on loudspeaker. But he has ruled himself out as the wife of brother Tom battles cancer, with the illness now terminal. I told Tom what I wanted and he was 100 percent in agreement.”Determined not to go out without a fight, Tiffany researched alternative therapies, "I said ‘well, I have nothing to lose, so I might as well try to do whatever I can'.After the cancer had been classed as terminal, Tiffany did not want to be scanned because she did not want to know if it had spread.“My consultant came in and told me the news. Picture - Henry Browne/Getty ImagesBen Youngs chose to miss out on a Lions tour to stay at home with his brother and sister-in-law They say children don’t understand but they really, really do understand.”Tiffany said she knew that Maisie had got the message when they were about to carry some bags.She said: "Maisie said to me ’mummy, you can lift that bag because you’re well now'.“So I can’t get away with things that I don’t want to do any more.”Accepting that the cancer was going to kill her, Tiffany let husband Tom – a tough, no-nonsense rugby player for She said: “Maisie came down after he had dressed her one morning.“I was like ‘what is she wearing?’ He was like 'What’s wrong with it?’“She was wearing a stripy coloured top, a polka dot skirt and glittery shoes.The couple had been forced to discuss the practicalities of one parent childcare by Tom after Tiffany had passed away.She said she gave Tom tips on styling and he even went to a salon to learn how to plait hair.Tiffany said the day after she had been told her cancer was terminal Tom went into training to tell the players and coaches.“He stood up in front of all the coaches and all the players and he told them all that was it.“Then he just came home from training and that was it.”Tiffany said she felt guilty that Tom’s brother Ben opted not to go on the British and Irish Lions your of New Zealand last year but to stay at home and help out.She said: “Tom said it was Ben’s choice. Leicester’s Ben Youngs has pulled out of the Lions tour of New Zealand after the wife of his brother and team-mate, Tom, was diagnosed with terminal cancer. PLAYERSGF always cover the news of NFL wags, cricketers hottest life partners, MLB athlete's new girlfriend, etc. ... Tom Youngs' wife Tiffany was diagnosed with cancer in 2014 "He just went to the club the next day for training.“It was a massive, massive shock to me and my family as no-one in the family had ever had cancer.“It was the start of my four and half year journey.”The terminal prognosis three years later changed Tiffany’s view of life and appeared to signal that her battle with cancer wouldn't end positively.She said: “My perspective on life became so different. I rang my dad and he dropped the phone.”Now Tiffany said she is fighting to believe that she is actually in remission.She said: “If I get a cold or a cough I think oh my God, has it come back? Tom Youngs’ wife has been battling cancer for three years and the family have received news the illness is terminal, prompting Ben’s decision to withdraw from the British and Irish Lions tour. Benjamin Ryder Youngs is an English rugby union player who plays as a scrum-half for Leicester Tigers and England.